“Find the people or the god(s) or nature or anything in life that can sit with you, that can be with you, just as you are...that won’t enable you, or feed into you, or give advice, or try to tell you if you’re right or wrong or even if “they” are right or wrong...that won’t try to change the way you are in that moment, or the way that you feel... that won’t label you or “it” or “them” good or bad...that won’t even try to “help” if you’re not asking for it...that won’t try to fix...that won’t panic...the one(s) or the thing(s) or the place(s) that will just stay, witness, and hold space... that see(s) you, as you are, where you are. It won’t be just anyone or any thing or any place... but those things in life.... they’re golden... they’re magic.”